Aiight fam...it's been a few days since I have reflected so today's topic is "Love"...so for the last couple of days or so I've been thinking and debating something in my head. When you are in a serious committed relationship what's the grace period before moving on? Now me personally I think it is based on the level of committment. I mean if you are with someone a couple of years and then you break up I find it kind of hard to believe that you can just up and move on in a matter of a few weeks unless your heart was never really fully in it. Now I can say me myself I've personally been there before but for me the moving on was just a matter of thinking the grass was greener on the other side of the fence.
Now to take this thing a step further how do you move from an engagement back to the dating scene? Again I ask is there an appropriate time frame or what? Again I find it hard to believe that one can just move on unless one or both parties hearts were never truly in the relationship from the jump. Granted I know everyone is different and we all heal and hurt different I think there should be some general consesus about a time frame. I kind of think that anything less than 2 or more months from breaking off a marriage or engagement is suspect, plain And simple.
So my closing thoughts...if you don't really love the person you're with (or if your unsure about your love for them) don't say it. if you're not sure if they are the one for you don't propose ( or accept the proposal)...and if you're not over your ex then don't move on to the next because it will blow up in your face and hearts will be broken.
Love, Peace & Poetry!
